Lydi is delivering babies for the babies she has previously delivered and onto the next generation. Lydi doesn't NEED to advertise to stay busy delivering babies. Her clients are repeat clients and referrals by word of mouth. We all know that clients refer friends and family to someone they had a great experience with and when they loved the services received. If Lydi were guilty of your accusations, she would have been out of business a long time ago! "By their fruits ye shall know them."
Lydi is known for her amazing abilities in tuning into the mother and baby. She has an important gift for helping women have healing births. If anyone needs a healing birth, LYDI is the midwife you need. If you ladies can't move on and get past this situation and heal, you should give Lydi a call for your next birth because she is the best midwife and has incredible results.
In the meantime, count your blessings, name them one by one and INSTEAD OF SPENDING NEGATIVE TIME ON THE COMPUTER, REDIRECT YOUR ENERGY! Get off the computer ("You can do it, I know you can. Thumbs up for Rock N Roll!") and spend that time doing something fun with your CHILDREN and family to help you heal by making new memories that you can dwell on. Enjoy them while you can, because they grow up way too fast :P